Anyone who knows me will know that my biggest passion; after drums is fighting!
For this I need a good health plan. I have set this up and do karate 8 hours a week. I'm not going to miss a session from now until holidays and over holidays i will hopefully train in BJJ! I'm writing this to motivate my self basically. Im fed up of my own excuses....im tired, im ill etc. I mean fuck me, fuck excuses; life is more important! I love life, to quote my own WAND fightshorts I fight for life! Shit man I fight for fucking life! Yeah the adrenilines going now im up for this shit!
Chris.
Friday, 27 February 2009
Wednesday, 18 February 2009
How good is speed dating!?
The short answer is very.........
The longer answer is very, at first I was like "oh man I brought this when I was drunk". "Shit ill never do this". My mind was brimming with a load of negativity it wasnt good I was anexious. It was shit. I decided I needed to man up; I thought of the positives like hay ill meet people, hay I might meet friendly girls etc. The negatives where still there, but they where lessened by the positivity.
The teachings of this so far: This negativity is called Annexiety. Without blowing my own horn as im writing this to teach others (and to record it for myself) the positive thinking that followed helped block out this anexiety and thus I went to this event; anyway...........
We got there and my friend we will call ihm big tom, was drinking alcohol. I was drinking Cola (no alcohol I wanted off that). Anyway he turns to me and says rather loudly in a half farmer half brummie accent "lets go get some condoms hay". Or something similar. I was a little taken back by this:
1. I had condoms
2. I didnt want to share
3. We are in a union bar loads of people are around, do it slyly, id accept it, but this dude!
Anyway after this event the anexiety kicked back in, I was like man this is embaressing shit I could be playing pool etc. Anyway it began and in the people I met where all real cool the following points could be useful though:
1. Approach quick, approach fast, Dont hesitate, we are all in the same situation anywhere, anytime! I now see this includes clubs, pubs, bars etc. We are all out and people are out to have a give time if YOU help with this your in.
2. Make her laugh.......Again this got me results because when you get someone to laugh it helps her to relax and she will think your fun and active, dull people cant make people laugh (well they can but its like you what ha.....ha (you know what I mean))
3. Mention interests and be interested about them if that makes any sense. People can have an interest like say stamps, but not the passion behind them. You can make any passion interesting, in a variation of ways. A good way to do this is speak with the passion of the hobbie behind what your saying.....e.g. I love karate, oh man its sooooo physical. Also from making statements such as these new conversations can arise. Like your life activities/her life activities.
4. If she talks about herself your life is made easier. Ok im lazy, if I can sit back whilst someone natters with me and I just add the occasional wow or ok or statement in that keeps her going its good. In this case the interactions only went on for two minutes at a time, but in a bigger scenario, if your interesting and passionate and want to give not take you can do that and stay in those kinds of interactions all day!
5. Dont do questions all the time- I did this a few times and it literally is like putting a siev under the both of you and draining the energy away, you begin to feel bored so will she and then youll sit there (and make your excuses like "what are we supposed to talk about now"? Also she might get bitchy as she blames the negatvity on you; you are after all the leader.
I could probably come up with more bad and good comments about this evening all night! I was a bit gutted though that I didnt win best dressed, I had a pink shirt and everything!
Chris.
The longer answer is very, at first I was like "oh man I brought this when I was drunk". "Shit ill never do this". My mind was brimming with a load of negativity it wasnt good I was anexious. It was shit. I decided I needed to man up; I thought of the positives like hay ill meet people, hay I might meet friendly girls etc. The negatives where still there, but they where lessened by the positivity.
The teachings of this so far: This negativity is called Annexiety. Without blowing my own horn as im writing this to teach others (and to record it for myself) the positive thinking that followed helped block out this anexiety and thus I went to this event; anyway...........
We got there and my friend we will call ihm big tom, was drinking alcohol. I was drinking Cola (no alcohol I wanted off that). Anyway he turns to me and says rather loudly in a half farmer half brummie accent "lets go get some condoms hay". Or something similar. I was a little taken back by this:
1. I had condoms
2. I didnt want to share
3. We are in a union bar loads of people are around, do it slyly, id accept it, but this dude!
Anyway after this event the anexiety kicked back in, I was like man this is embaressing shit I could be playing pool etc. Anyway it began and in the people I met where all real cool the following points could be useful though:
1. Approach quick, approach fast, Dont hesitate, we are all in the same situation anywhere, anytime! I now see this includes clubs, pubs, bars etc. We are all out and people are out to have a give time if YOU help with this your in.
2. Make her laugh.......Again this got me results because when you get someone to laugh it helps her to relax and she will think your fun and active, dull people cant make people laugh (well they can but its like you what ha.....ha (you know what I mean))
3. Mention interests and be interested about them if that makes any sense. People can have an interest like say stamps, but not the passion behind them. You can make any passion interesting, in a variation of ways. A good way to do this is speak with the passion of the hobbie behind what your saying.....e.g. I love karate, oh man its sooooo physical. Also from making statements such as these new conversations can arise. Like your life activities/her life activities.
4. If she talks about herself your life is made easier. Ok im lazy, if I can sit back whilst someone natters with me and I just add the occasional wow or ok or statement in that keeps her going its good. In this case the interactions only went on for two minutes at a time, but in a bigger scenario, if your interesting and passionate and want to give not take you can do that and stay in those kinds of interactions all day!
5. Dont do questions all the time- I did this a few times and it literally is like putting a siev under the both of you and draining the energy away, you begin to feel bored so will she and then youll sit there (and make your excuses like "what are we supposed to talk about now"? Also she might get bitchy as she blames the negatvity on you; you are after all the leader.
I could probably come up with more bad and good comments about this evening all night! I was a bit gutted though that I didnt win best dressed, I had a pink shirt and everything!
Chris.
Tuesday, 3 February 2009
Work and love.....
Both suck. Thats the end of that sentence by the way! Work sucks because its all ive been doing for the past few days 9-5/6, mostly sitting around thinking 'I dont know any of this shit, why are you asking me to do it?" Love sucks because I just realised that the girl ive been wanting to ask out for Wednesday isnt here and therefore wont be out wednesday, and the other lady i think i love is well miles away :-( On a much happier note ill be down the gym soon re-training and its not long until karates victory at Super Teams! An event which I havent heard much of in the last few weeks since it was announced actually! Also my UFC 89 DVD should be out soon; that'll be a good watch! My Buddha is sitting right in front of me, he wants his belly rubbed; do you?
Chris.
Chris.
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